Parsing Vibes As Well As Words
The academy must pay attention not only to what is said, but how it is said
By Dayna “Joy” Goldstein
"Ginevra de' Benci" by Leonardo da Vinci, 1474. National Gallery of Art, Public Domain.
Eve, we’re told, reached for forbidden knowledge. Not satisfied with instruction alone, she wanted to know for herself. She touched, tasted, felt—engaging the world not through abstraction, but through sensation. In many ways, she is the first humanist. And perhaps, the first dissident.
In higher education today, we may be standing on our own kind of threshold—an eve not of exile, but of return, not to a lost Eden, but to something we’ve long exiled from the academy: the body.
For decades, open inquiry has been framed as a matter of freedom, reason, and speech. But inquiry is not only a mental act. Every disagreement is also a physiological event. The nervous system—the unconscious infrastructure of breath, tone, muscle tension, heart rate—shapes whether an idea can be heard, held, or hated. If the academy wants to rebuild a culture of open dialogue, it must pay attention not only to what is said but to how it’s said—and how it lands. We are, quite literally, on the eve of embodiment.
Post-Wokeness and the Problem of Presence
The cultural shift often called “wokeness” brought necessary corrections: an expanded moral imagination, the acknowledgment of identity-based harm, and a demand for greater inclusion. But it also, at times, encouraged rigid scripts and flattened interpersonal nuance. Students and faculty alike began navigating disagreement not through dialogue but through performance—attempting to say the right thing rather than relate with integrity.
Now we are entering a post-woke moment. Less a backlash than a maturation—an opportunity to reintegrate moral clarity with the embodied presence required for real intellectual encounters.
A post-woke pedagogy doesn’t abandon justice. It roots justice in relational nervous system awareness. It asks questions such as: Can you stay in your body when someone vehemently disagrees with you? Can you hear criticism without activating a threat response or, conversely, fight the natural urge to withdraw? And can you argue without coercing?
We’ve taught students how to make a point, but we haven’t taught them how to be with one another within the tension of disagreement.
Reclaiming the Delivery Canon
Classical rhetoric offers five canons: invention, arrangement, style, memory, and delivery. Of these, delivery—the “how” of expression—has long been treated as secondary. Yet, in an age of epistemic overload and cultural fragmentation, delivery has become the hinge upon which understanding turns.
In a nervous-system-aware education model, delivery is not just vocal projection or hand gestures. It is presence. It is the tone of voice that signals safety, the pacing that allows processing, and the posture that says, “I’m still here, even when I disagree.”
We live in a world where tone policing is frowned upon, and rightly so when used to silence someone. But tone still matters. Our nervous systems don’t just parse words—they parse vibes. A phrase offered gently can often be received. The same phrase barked can trigger shutdown. Rhetorical delivery is no longer a soft skill. It is the somatic foundation of free inquiry.
What if we trained students not just in argumentation but in co-regulation? What if we prioritized not just finding their voices, but modulating their breath when things get heated?
The Physiology of Intellectual Risk
Classrooms are often designed as cognitive spaces—seats in rows, heads bowed over laptops. But every conversation about justice, politics, or morality is also an experiment in embodied safety. When students share an unpopular opinion, their nervous system braces for rejection. When a professor challenges a normative claim, they are not just making a point but crossing a physiological threshold that may evoke fight, flight, or freeze in others.
We call for intellectual risk-taking but rarely consider what makes that risk endurable. The nervous system can’t be bypassed. It must be included. If we want to teach students how to disagree well, we need to teach them how to recognize what disagreement feels like—and how to stay present through it.
Imagine courses in “Rhetorical Delivery and Regulation,” where students practice giving feedback while tracking their breath, where listening is active and attuned. The goal is not just to win an argument but to expand the capacity to remain in contact through discomfort.
Such training would prepare students to engage in our political life with greater maturity. After all, the fragility of our civic discourse reflects not only a lack of information but a deficit of physiological capacity.
If we want to teach students how to disagree well, we need to teach them how to recognize what disagreement feels like—and how to stay present through it.
From Performance to Presence
Post-wokeness offers a chance to move beyond both the brittle call-outs of identity politics and the cold logic of rationalism. We don’t need more clever arguments. We need better-regulated arguers.
We also need people who can track the physiological cost of disagreement—not to avoid it, but to metabolize it. This is not about therapeutic coddling—quite the opposite. It’s about building the stamina for complexity—the ability to stay in proximity to those who see the world differently without collapsing or attacking.
The academic culture of the future won’t be defined by which ideologies are in vogue. It will be defined by how we embody the principles of open inquiry.
• Can we breathe through the moment we feel misunderstood?
• Can we pause before interrupting?
• Can we differentiate between moral danger and nervous system discomfort?
These are the fundamental questions of our intellectual age.
Eve, Again
In many ways, Eve’s story is not about sin but about thresholds. She senses that something has been hidden. She reaches. She dares. She suffers the cost. But in doing so, she initiates the very condition we now call consciousness.
She doesn’t just eat the fruit. She delivers herself into a world where knowledge costs something.
Is that not what education is?
Today, our institutions are in a kind of postlapsarian moment. We’ve been cast out of the innocence of consensus that was common in the United States during the decades following World War II. We are navigating more differences, conflicts, and polyphony than ever before, and without clear rules. But what if this isn’t exile? What if it’s evolution?
We are not post-truth. We are pre-regulation.
At the same time, there’s a garden ahead, but not one we can think our way into. It must be felt, built, and co-regulated.
Let us return to the body—not in shame, but in invitation. Let us train the next generation not only to critique arguments they don’t like but to stay with them—to let another’s meaning be real for a moment, even when it’s not their own. Let us return to the delivery canon—not for eloquence alone, but for empathy.
The real threshold is not between left and right, woke and anti-woke, tradition and innovation; it’s between dysregulation and dialogue. And we are standing, as ever, on the eve.